{"id":745,"date":"2004-12-07T14:34:44","date_gmt":"2004-12-07T19:34:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/martinepage.com\/wp\/2004\/12\/07\/the-new-atkins\/"},"modified":"2004-12-07T14:34:44","modified_gmt":"2004-12-07T19:34:44","slug":"the-new-atkins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/2004\/12\/07\/the-new-atkins\/","title":{"rendered":"The new Atkins"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&rsquo;s the new Atkins: no more pasta, and no more second dates with men who do not hit &laquo; Reply &raquo; promptly enough.<\/p>\n<p>Rebecca Traister <a href=\"http:\/\/www.salon.com\/mwt\/feature\/2004\/12\/06\/hjntiy\/index.html\">in Salon<\/a> does a good job at debunking the myth around the highly popular book called <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/life\/books\/excerpts\/2004-09-08-hes-just_x.htm\">He&rsquo;s just not that into you<\/a>, a dating advice book that explains to single women that when a man doesn&rsquo;t call them or doesn&rsquo;t answer their IM promptly, then well, he&rsquo;s just not that into them, so they should forget about him.<\/p>\n<p>I know a lot of couples who would not be together now if the woman had not been oh so slightly persistent&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Dear male readers, if you feel so inclined, read the &laquo; Maybe He Doesn&rsquo;t Want to Ruin the Friendship &raquo; part of the book (4th paragraph <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/life\/books\/excerpts\/2004-09-08-hes-just_x.htm\">here<\/a>), and let us girls know what you really think:<\/p>\n<p>I hate to tell you, but that whole &laquo; I don&rsquo;t want to ruin the friendship &raquo; excuse is a racket. It works so well because it seems so wise. Sex could mess up a friendship. Unfortunately, in the entire history of mankind, that excuse has never ever been used by someone who actually means it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&rsquo;s the new Atkins: no more pasta, and no more second dates with men who do not hit &laquo; Reply &raquo; promptly enough. Rebecca Traister in Salon does a good job at debunking the myth around the highly popular book called He&rsquo;s just not that into you, a dating advice book that explains to single&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/2004\/12\/07\/the-new-atkins\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">The new Atkins<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/745"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=745"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/745\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=745"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=745"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.martinepage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=745"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}