This afternoon, B. and I went to see our notary to sign the first series of legal papers for the purchase of our new house. There is so much paperwork involved in buying a house that it can get pretty overwhelming at times. Our notary, a woman, was pretty patient with my desire to understand every single step involved. At some point in the process, she wanted to make sure that I got a copy of a specific document, so she asked her husband to make photocopies for us. Later on, she asked him to check her agenda to see if she was free for our next meeting. Then she got a little impatient when she found out that he didn’t get the tax information he was supposed to.
I don’t know much about this couple, but it seems like at some point in the woman’s career (maybe from the start), they decided that the husband would be her assistant and that they would run their business from their house. He answers the phone and returns the calls, greets the clients and probably makes coffee (though he didn’t offer us any). I think it’s great.
In a not so distant past, I worked as an administrative assistant to two different publishing executives (but not for both at the same time). One of them was younger than me and both were less educated than I was (though they did go to Ivy League schools). They were extremely bright men with whom I had a great rapport, and since we were in politically-correct San Francisco, both of them were rather uncomfortable about the situation. I have caught them sneaking out of meetings to run to the photocopier or the kitchen because they couldn’t stand the idea of asking me to make photocopies or get drinks for the people in the meeting. I didn’t really complain but hey, I had taken the job, and I knew what came with it.
I have no resentment about my past as a « glorified secretary », yet this afternoon, I loved to see the notary holler at her husband and repeatedly ask him to do tedious tasks for her. It’s silly, but I just love the idea of a woman having a male assistant. Our notary’s got it good since she gets to call her assistant sweetie and slap his bum and he can’t even sue her for sexual harassment! She didn’t do anything like this, of course, and thanked him every time for his help. If I had a male assistant, I would be a very classy lady too!
